Here’s the skinny. You would not say, “Myself will take care of it”; therefore you do not say, “Joe and myself will take care of it.” You say  ”I will take care of it,” and you must say, “Joe and I will take care of it.” Myself my em-barr-ass! Cut it out.

And here’s another version: “Please fax it over to Brad and myself.” Now, would you say “Fax it over to myself”? Well, you might, but please don’t. “Fax it over to (Brad and) me.” Period.

OK, I know you’re all worried now because your Aunt Tilly told you it should be “Brad and I.” No, it shouldn’t. Aunt Tilly was just in a tizzy because she grew up hearing how she should stop saying, “Matilda and me are gonna go hunt dinosaurs.” And indeed she should have stopped, because it’s “I” when you’re the subject, and also because there really weren’t any dinosaurs and she was telling whoppers. She should have said, “Matilda and I are going to get dirty and annoy the neighbors.”

The point Aunt Tilly was missing is that “me” is a legitimate and under-used word. If you’re the object of the action, you should say “me,” even if there’s someone else involved. You wouldn’t say, “The feds cuffed I.” You would say, “The feds cuffed me.” So when they cuff your boss, too – and we know it was all his fault anyway – you’ll say, “The feds cuffed my no-good, rotten boss and me.”

And please be advised that “I” and “myself” are feuding. You may never begin a sentence with “I, myself…” Or at least wait until I’m out of the room.

So what the heck is “myself” for? “I gave myself a Valentine’s Day gift because no one else was speaking to me after my attack of grammatical priggery” would be a legitimate use of the word. You can even say, “I can’t stand her, myself.”

Now I’m taking myself to dinner to celebrate your grammatical rehabilitation.

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How can I say this politely? OK, I can’t. Admins aren’t the best paid people on the planet. Nor do most of us have complicated tax situations. So why are you squandering your hard-won pennies to retrieve the taxes that you overpaid because you weren’t paying attention in the first place? Who are you that you need a CPA, Donalda Trump, E.A.? Seriously!

If you can juggle travel, expenses, meetings, presentations, onboarding, offboarding and the hundred other urgent issues and crazed people you deal with on a daily basis, you can manage to follow step-by-step instructions to tell a piece of software to fill in your tax forms. I’ve gotten better refunds doing it myself than I ever have from a tax pro, and not because I’m good at it. Doing taxes myself makes me think about and dig up more deductions that hauling a shoebox to I & S Clock ever did. Take the leap. You can use the money you save to invite me to lunch. I accept chocolates, too.

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I’d quote her, but she uses pictures – bless her – and those wouldn’t carry over. Take a little side trip over to her site and then come on back for more about Excel. Thanks, LauraJ!

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It isn’t really a new host. According to friends who use it, they’ve been around for a the better part of a decade. They seem to be doing everything right. They’re employee-owned, they’re green, they’re both Mac and Windows friendly, they talk to you and they show their faces. The prices are excellent and they have all the right “stuff” available. They even offer you a “green verifier” button to demonstrate to your visitors that your site is carbon neutral. If I were starting up now, this is the host I’d choose.

What they don’t offer is ready-made site templates. If that’s what you’re after, try one of the other hosts discussed in earlier posts, like BlueHost (this link leads to a $6.95/mo promo), GoDaddy ($6.99/ mo) or HostGator (starts at $4.95 and is a green host).

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If you have a newer version of Outlook, the invitation is in your Outlook trash folder and you can retrieve it. If you have an older version, however, it’s just gone. You’ll need to ask the host to send you a new copy of the invitation, or ask someone to forward* it to you. The way to avoid this in the future is to open the calendar, open or right click on the meeting, and decline from there. The invitation will remain in your inbox where you can accept it again, thereby putting it back into the calendar.

If you want to the invitation to remain on the calendar but not show as busy, you’ll need to “reply to” the originator saying that you won’t be able to attend, then change the “show time as” option to “free.” If you choose “decline” it will be removed from the calendar.

Tip: I like to make a personal folder for declined invitations so that I can quickly review what I’ve turned down if the conflict changes.

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1) Go with the packaged “website in an hour” version offered by your host. The strength of the out-of-the-box website is it’s simplicity. The weakness in the plan is that these tend to be inflexible, often require you to buy the domain name (the name of your site)  from the host, and are difficult if not impossible to transfer if you decide to change hosts. The host may own the name and just let you use it – as long as you remain a client. Think of it as renting. If you love your domain name, check out the policy on transfers before you click OK.

Vocabulary Review: The host is where your website lives. If you just put it on your computer, no one could see it…you need to put it on a server that other people can see. Servers that you or I would use are owned by companies referred to as web hosts.

2) Use a content manager, like Expression Engine. You’ll need to buy it, but they’ll supply templates and support. The downside is that it costs money. The upside is – it bears repeating – support and a professional product. You can see some examples on their site; click on “showcase” and “templates,” or look at this one: http://www.einsteinthepuggle.com. (I have no relationship to this site and categorically deny all responsibility…but he’s a cute little bugger.) I decided – after much agonizing and bugging the tech-savvy owner of the aforementioned puggle site – not to use Expression Engine because I wanted to bend my pennies into quarters, but it seems to be an excellent piece of software.

3) Use free software. This site is created on what may be the largest free website creation software: WordPress. I like it because it was the most flexible of the free software that I found and there were no strings attached – but I’m no expert; feel free to do your own research. Since it’s completely free, you can’t expect to always find technical support, but the forum is huge and well-attended, and there are bazillions of free plug-ins (enhancements to the software for specific purposes) and templates (to control the way the site looks and the links work). I thought it was all Ancient Greek and managed–with forum support–to figure it out, so you definitely will.

Tip: There is a hosting site specifically for Wordpress. This is their “.com” site as opposed to the site of the free software, the “.org” site. I haven’t chosen to use that service because it’s fairly limited. If you want to create a commercial site, I don’t think it’s the host for you.

Are you worrying about your platform (Windows, Mac, etc.)? Don’t. The website software runs on the host, not on your computer. You can download it and manually load it onto the host, but 1) you’re not going to and 2) all the software I’m telling you about works on either platform. However, if you use a Mac, check out the FAQs to see if the host supports Mac. Also do a quick Google search of the host name +Mac. The problem isn’t that the Mac has any problems, but the host might – they are suspicious of the “Other” – and as soon as you have a support issue, they will blame your Mac. Find a ’support-ive’ host.

The other option is to buy DreamWeaver and build it from scratch. You can try it for free with this link and see if this is the route for you. The upsides are complete control over your website and a new skill. I think Adobe has made it as simple as possible, but it’s if your first time with HTML or XHTML, you probably want to start with one of the earlier options. I tried it, pronounced it completely doable and moved on to something free and faster – but sometimes I wish I’d built it from scratch so I’d know what was lurking in here. Other days, I’m grateful not to have to think about it.

Now that you’ve decided what software to use (what took you so long?), look at your host’s specifications. You’ll find much mumbo and more jumbo. Focus on what you need to know:

• Do they support the software you want to use? You want to see it in the list of supported programs, or see something like “WordPress enabled.” (Or Expression Engine – whatever you choose). If you can’t find it, ask your host if they support the software. Don’t be embarrassed to be a newbie. Just say, “I’ve never done this before and I was thinking of using…” The speed and quality of the response will tell you a lot about the host.
  • I spent a few weeks working with a completely willing and helpful host who didn’t really know WordPress or Expression Engine and had old versions. Even though he was so helpful and I felt guilty, I went with a host who was completely conversant and up to date. I’ve thanked myself daily ever since. Sometimes I even send me flowers.
• What’s their policy on ads? A lot of free services implant ads on your site. All revenues for those ads go to the service. Fair enough since it’s free, but is that what you really want? You have no control over what your audience will see and no opportunity to earn income. Do they allow you to put your own advertising on your site?
• If you want to sell a product, you need to know if they provide (free?) or support a shopping cart and checkout system. GoDaddy.com Quick Shopping Cart®, for example, has a panoply of carts. Just be sure to choose a plan that includes them. Note: it costs a little more to buy a hosting plan that includes all the bells and whistles for a store – about $10/month – so you might consider a couple of alternatives: 1) choose a minimal plan and upgrade when you’re satisfied with it or 2) choose a basic plan, set up a free store at eCrater or Etsy and link to it. Once you get really good at it, you can seamlessly redirect a link to your store. Keep in mind that you will pay a commission on sales made this way.
• You might want email addresses at your domain. If so, look for the number of included email addresses.
• Do you want to host a forum? Make sure they support forum software – it’s separate from the website software. I like phpBB3. You can see an example in our currently not-very-active forum. How about a wiki? If so, make sure they support wikis. Will you want to do a bunch of sites? Make sure you can add on domains or sub-domains. My recommendation with all of these things is to make sure they’re available in case you want them, but don’t sign up for a plan with all the extras. Do the basic plan and upgrade as you need it.
• There’s one last thing you might look for while you’re investigating at the host’s advantages: Fantastico. This is a piece of software that installs all your website software for you. It saves you from having to learn what a config file is and how to edit php. High volume hosts tend to have it. The downside is that it doesn’t always work. If you have problems and go hunting for a solution, the first thing you’re going to hear is, “get rid of the Fantastico installation and do it manually,” but we can blow up that bridge when we come to it.

You’ve done enough for one day. Go walk the cat.

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But can you? The truth is, most attempts to make money via blogging fail. You can’t just stick ads on your blog or website and expect it to make money – you have to do it right – you know, like you do everything at work. It’s referred to as “monetizing” your blog, by the way. Want to try it?

The first thing you need is a domain name. Tribeofadmins.com is the domain name of this site, for example. To do that, you must make sacrifices to the domain gods. The most powerful domain god is Network Solutions. They’ll let you choose a package and sacrifice anywhere from $9.99 to $32.99 in the form of Visa or Mastercard – no blood involved. I like them because they were here first and they’re The One and that’s that.

The next thing you need is a place to plop your site down. This is a web host. You can spend anywhere from nothing to the$ky’sthelimit on this…I recommend next to nothing. “Next to,” because it buys you a bit more service than “nothing.” Some of the popular services are Hostgator, GoDaddy and BlueHost.

Make sure that the host you choose supports your operating system (Windows, Mac, Linux), look at their “uptime” statistics (the higher the better – what’s the point in having a site if it’s down?), and good customer service reviews. A good place to look is the FAQ. If you see something like “We support Mac, but…” and you have a Mac, go elsewhere.

Once you’ve done all that, you can decide what software you want to use to create your blog, but that’s for another post. We’ve done quite enough for one day.

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What it is: A malaprop is a misused word that results in a nonsense sentence, or sometimes a sentence that makes sense, but expresses something completely different from what was intended. The name comes from a character in a restoration comedy, The Rivals, by Richard Sheridan, called Mrs. Malaprop. Similar blunders have been made famous in real life by Yogi Berra, Dan Quale, and George Bush.

You probably haven’t made any such obvious bloopers on your site, but subtler version of the malaprop can reach out bite you in tender places in your most public moments to hilarious effect to everyone but you.

(In)famous malaprops:

G.W. Bush, courtesy of Wikipedia:

• “I want to remind you all that in order to fight and win the war, it requires an expenditure of money that is commiserate with keeping a promise to our troops to make sure that they’re well-paid, well-trained, well-equipped.” (commensurate)
• “We cannot let terrorists and rogue nations hold this nation hostile or hold our allies hostile.” (hostage)
• “When Iraq is liberated, you will be treated, tried and persecuted as a war criminal.” (prosecuted)
• “And there is distrust in Washington. I am surprised, frankly, at the amount of distrust that exists in this town. And I’m sorry it’s the case, and I’ll work hard to try to elevate it.” (alleviate)

Dan Quayle, courtesy of Snopes:

• “Republicans understand the importance of bondage between a mother and child.” (bonding)
• “I stand by all the misstatements I have made.” (statements)

The media, also courtesy to Wikipedia:

• It was reported in New Scientist that an office worker described a colleague as “a vast suppository of information.” (repository) The worker then apologised for his “Miss-Marple-ism.” (malapropism) New Scientist reported it as possibly the first time malapropism has been turned into a malapropism.’

This is malapropartistry that few of us could hope to match, but that won’t keep of us from trying.

Eggcorns

What they are: eggcorns are words that are misheard as something that fits into the hearer’s known vocabulary and kind of makes sense. The word was coined by Mark Liberman – perhaps inadvertently – in Language Log when he described a woman who misheard the word acorns as egg corns. Mondegreens are words or phrases that are misunderstood – a subtle and not always clear difference. The word is most often used to describe misunderstood lyrics. Mondegreen or eggcorn – they’re both fun to say. For the whole scoop, read Gavin Edwards entertaining essay on the subject here.

Some eggcorns and mondegreens I stub my sensibilities on regularly online and in the workplace:

• a hair’s breath (should be a hair’s breadth – and not “hare-breath Harry,” either. Dog-breath, maybe.)
• waiting with baited breath – ewwwww! Think about it! Bated breath! Thank you!
• backpeddle – back pedal. Peddling backs sounds like on of those “I woke up in tub of ice” emails.
• bare witness – fun for the jury, but probably warmer to bear witness
• bear-faced lie – very descriptive, but bears don’t lie. Go with bare.
• bold-faced lie – what with our increasing understanding of type faces, this seems to make sense, but really it’s bald-faced – similar to bare-faced. We also don’t grin and bare it, unless we want to annoy the sheriff. We bear it. I know…all these bare bears bearing it in the woods – it’s confusing.
• could of – (could have or could’ve)
• deep-seeded – another that seems sensible, but it’s deep-seated. No soil involved.
• far-gone conclusion – (foregone conclusion)
• for all intensive purposes – intents and purposes
• free reign – King Louis had free reign. The revolution took care of that. Lesser beings have free rein of the horse, not the kingdom.
• get your dandruff up – again I say, and I can’t say this enough – eeewwwww!! Dander!
• get your nipples in a twist – while this may be titillating (sorry), it’s not correct. It’s your knickers that get twisted, unless you’re being tortured and that’s beyond the scope of this site.
• hail and hearty – not unless you’re the weather. Hail can be balls of falling ice or homage to King Louis–either way, your head is in danger. Hale is a healthy state of being, which might achieve with kale and…never mind.
• just assume – (just as soon)
• knitpick – the real thing is the more disgusting one in this case. You are not repairing the sweater, you are picking at little tiny things, like nits, which, in case you don’t know, is another name for lice. Nitpick
• laughing stalk – you could do this, if you’re a giggling pervert. You could hear it, if you have celery hallucinations. Barring those two cases, you must be a laughing stock.
• on tenderhooks – hooks have no tendency to be tender. Tenterhooks.
• past away – easy mistake to make, but if you have trouble remembering that your loved has passed away, just use died.
• hand-ringing – unless you’re Edwina Bellhands, you’re wringing those hands
• keep your eyes pealed – eyes and fruit can be peeled; only bells can be pealed, unless, again, you’re Edwina.
• straightjacket – a person can be in dire straits, requiring a straitjacket while sailing the Straits of Gilbralter. Or one might stick to the straight and narrow path.
• take for granite – you mistook me for a rock?? That’s much worse than taking me for granted.
• expatriot – nope. Expatriate.
• chest of draws – chest of drawers
• wreckless driver – means exactly the opposite of what you were going for – reckless. Perhaps you should just call him a feckless driver.

Think you’re exempt? Hah! As we grow more experienced, we depend more and more on that capacity that allows humans to be human – autopilot. The more we run on autopilot, the more we fluff it. Save yourself. Proof, proof, proof. Get someone else to proof. If you’re building a website, have it scrubbed!

For more eggcorn fun, check out The Eggcorn Database.

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The short answer is yes, you must.

Your boss may just be discovering social media – and you may be, too. You must get ahead of that curve! An old-school admin will soon find herself in a new-fangled unemployment line – online.

What happens when your manager wants you to maintain the website and tweet regularly? Are you ready? You may be in the position of advisor. If that happens, you need to figure out whether or not Twitter is an appropriate means for your business to promote itself. Tweeting about caulking every five minutes isn’t going to win your company love or dollars.

If you think Twitter is all there is to it, you need to put down the quill pen and start start surfing. You might check out JK Virtual Office Blog. She’s a VA who has specialized in social media and she has some useful insights to share. Another one is the My Twitter VA blog. She’s taken a certification in social media marketing. We might not all want to become marketers, but if you don’t know the basics and it doesn’t come easily to you, find a course, online or otherwise.

And what about that website? The theory is that “all” you have to do is post the updates. The words “all” and “website” should never be used in the same sentence. You’ll need to learn more about it, and what you need to learn depends on what kind of website your company has. Something that definitely falls in the “can’t hurt” category is learning a little HTML. I know….it sounds like “ewwwww…programming,” but it’s really more like pig Latin. Once you get the gist, you can navigate reasonably without being fluent. I found this free online tutorial at W3 Schools fun and illuminating.

Leave the “I don’t need to know that” mentality to those who can afford it – admins need to adaptive learners. That’s the long answer.

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Get to “Format Picture” by your preferred method – I right click on the picture.

Now choose “Layout” from the list of choices. In the Mac 2008 version it looks like this – yours may differ, but the same choices will be there:

Now click on “In front of text,” which shows the dog in front of the lines:

Your picture appears like a rabbit in freshly planted lettuce patch.

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